A Card for my Mom
Cancer. It can be a terrifying word. I know I was terrified when my mother told me that she had cancer. I remember being caught up in the word-“cancer.” I did not know my mother’s condition, that there were 4 stages of cancer, which stage my mother was in, what her course of treatment would be, or anything else. The first word that people think of when they hear the word cancer is “death.” At least that was the first word I thought of. Up to that point in my life, my brief history with cancer was death. Three friends of mine had cancer and did not survive. When my friends battled their cancers, I sent them greeting cards, to let them know I was thinking of them. “Why send them a greeting card?” you might ask. Quite simply, it was the only thing I knew to do. I felt helpless. I could not control the situation, the progression of the disease, or what was happening. The only thing I could do for them was to send a greeting card to express my concern, encouragement,...